Apr 27, 2013

How To Stop Emotional Eating And Start Living

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By Mario Cimmino


Intuitive Eating Crossed my path in a barnes and noble book store. I was looking to find a book on "food addiction" or the so called idea I was addicted to food. I grabbed the book and a large cookie and sat down to get started.

Hitting Diet Bottom

Was the first thought that came to mind when I started reading. I felt the authors were talking directly to me. I had to stop and look around; are they watching me?

The first statement in the chapter was "I just can not go on another diet, you're my last resort" this made me think of how many dang diets I had tried over the years and how many combinations of food didn't work. How many promised a ripped core and big muscles. I then began to think about all the times when a diet was over I had nowhere to go next but back to the way I originally ate putting weight back on.

Lets create a hypothetical cave man and name is Marook (I think my caveman name would be Marook). Lets say Marook is traveling along one day looking for food for himself and his family, and he passes a large berry bush but for some reason this bush is different the berries are so large he could only fit one in his palm. His mouth begins to water and his stomach begins to churn but he asks himself OH! how many points do I have left today, or I don't know this might have to many carbs? Does this sound realistic? Does this sound intuitive or even primal at that matter? So from now on remember the story of Marook or even create your own. I have created the story of Eleek and Eveek for Elyse and Evelyn. Tap into your primal signals and programming, now please don't go jumping around the house screaming like a monkey in a loin cloth and if you do make sure to upload it to YouTube.

What have your past diets told you?

I know with all my diets they start the same way and end the same way, I CAN DO THIS! to OKAY ill just start again tomorrow filled with depression.

Day 1: starts off as yes! I can do this oatmeal and egg whites for breakfast yum... "okay they are a little bland no flavor but ill deal"

Day 2: "this apple isn't very good I'm going to throw some caramel on here"

Day 3: Hey Mario do you want to grab some Italian after work for the movies tonight? "No man sorry I'm going to the gym and I have my protein shake anyways"

Day 4: "Ugh... today is Friday everyone is going to want to go out tonight. I think I will just go to gym do my hour of cardio and make a protein shake ill pass on any invites they won't understand they arent as determined as me" You go home after a nice hour cardio session and your mouth begins to water you notice your spouse or in my case mom has cooked some delicious caramel brittle.. The smell just overtakes you as enter through the door. "Mom can I have one?" She says "I thought you were on a diet". Well one won't hurt! It starts with one and I crave another, but I cant take anymore she will think I gave up on my diet and dieting means i'm strong! Mom leaves the room and I grab six more brittles and stuff them in my pocket. I go into my room and eat them as I pretend I am getting changed.. Getting a little scary now huh?

Day 5:

Morning: I can't believe I ate all that brittle, ugh! now im going to have to do 4 hours of plyometrics today, and you know what? I am only going to have apples all day with some chicken maybe.

Lunch Time: This salad is so good for me and im on my way to my six pack (as co-worker walks through office with a cheesy enchillada) "man I could really use one of those"

Dinner: Protein shake and salad it is, but that pizza smelled so good at lunch hmm maybe on the way home ill grab one and eat half. I pull up to pizza diner and the smell of the food overtakes me again. I pay the clerk and chew that pizza like I havn't seen food in weeks!

Conclusion

I would like to close this post with some supporting data of why restriction doesn't work (diets) and why you must learn to get in touch with your body's ques (intuitive eating, hunger directed eating, mindful eating)

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